Reflections on Italian culture

As we are wrapping up our trip, I wanted to share some thoughts I had on Italian culture.
I have not watched TV at all here, it’s been fabulous. There is too much to do. This would likely be different if I lived here, but maybe not. Italians like to go out for a late dinner--usually around 8 or 9. We've been doing this as well. Then, they don't just go home after dinner, but walk around the city, usually gathering at a public space such as a fountain or square to socialize. These locations are also full of tourists, vendors and musicians. I find it interesting to see locals willing to mingle with the tourists like that. Cafes are full of locals just standing at the counter drinking their coffee. There is no such thing as a to-go cup here. Americans would likely be irritated to walk in and see a crowd of people just standing with their coffee at the counter. It makes it difficult to order. Additionally, you have to pay to sit at a table--your coffee is several Euros cheaper if you stand and drink. Yes, several Euros cheaper. But, they seem to love it --again it gives the locals a chance to socialize.
There is no violent crime here to remark of. There was not a single time I ever felt unsafe, even walking (somewhat) late at night with just one other person. There is plenty of pick pocketing, but you don't really have to worry about being strong armed out of your money. Or having a gun shoved in your face. I've been way more scared of the traffic.
Speaking of traffic, Italians have it right. They all drive tiny cars and scooters. We've honestly seen 2 SUVs since we've been here. Smart cars are everywhere. And they are fast, scooters are even faster. Sometimes I swear they go 80 down our street. And scooters don't have to follow the traffic laws, so they just weave in and out of the cars and busses, vying for the pole position.
It's been fabulous being back in a classroom learning again. I realize how much I miss college and the lack of everyday adult responsibilities that went along with that! haha
There are a lot of Italians that speak English. Not that all of them are very happy about having to do it, but most of them can. I know a second language, but rarely have to use it. I imagine most Americans would be irritated if people from other countries just showed up and expected us to know their language. And as I seemed to recall there was recently a push to make English the official language of the US. Double standards, I guess.
All in all, it's really been an amazing trip. I feel so fortunate to have had this opportunity and although I look forward to catching up on my sleep and seeing my dog -- I still don't want the experience to end!

2 comments:

Unknown May 27, 2009 at 8:04 PM  

To bad that it must come to an end ........... but remember Skyler waits for you to return. It sounds like this has been the trip of a lifetime for you. That is GREAT !!!!

Welcome home, love Dad

JR May 28, 2009 at 9:01 AM  

Yes, I do look forward to seeing the dog. Oh yeah, and everyone else too! ;) It really has been the trip of a lifetime, so amazing. Just wait til you have to sit thru all 1000+ pictures of it! hah Talk to you soon!

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